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		<title>What Goes Around, Comes Around &#8211; An Inspirational, Motivational Story</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 01:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cai Junhao</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer.
One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He
dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer.</p>
<p>One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He<br />
dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming<br />
and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and<br />
terrifying death.</p>
<p>The next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the Scotsman&#8217;s sparse surroundings. An elegantly dressed<br />
nobleman stepped out and introduced himself as the father of the boy Farmer Fleming had saved.</p>
<p>&#8220;I want to repay you,&#8221; said the nobleman. &#8220;You saved my son&#8217;s life.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;No, I can&#8217;t accept payment for what I did,&#8221; the Scottish farmer replied, waving off the offer.</p>
<p>At that moment, the farmer&#8217;s own son came to the door of the family hovel. &#8220;Is that your son?&#8221; the nobleman<br />
asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Yes,&#8221; the farmer replied proudly.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll make you a deal. Let me provide him with the level of education my own son will enjoy. If the lad is<br />
anything like his father, he&#8217;ll no doubt grow to be a man we both will be proud of.&#8221;</p>
<p>And that he did.</p>
<p>Farmer Fleming&#8217;s son attended the very best schools and in time, he graduated from St. Mary&#8217;s Hospital<br />
Medical School in London, and went on to become known throughout the world as the noted Sir Alexander<br />
Fleming, the discoverer of Penicillin.</p>
<p>Years afterward, the same nobleman&#8217;s son who was saved from the bog was stricken with pneumonia.<br />
What saved his life this time?</p>
<p>Penicillin.</p>
<p>The name of the nobleman? Lord Randolph Churchill.</p>
<p>His son&#8217;s name? Sir Winston Churchill.</p>
<p><strong>Taken from</strong><br />
<span style="font-family: Times-Roman;"><a href="http://www.wow4u.com/comesaround/index.html" target="_blank">http://www.wow4u.com/comesaround/index.html</a></span></p>
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		<title>Choices In Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 07:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Catherine Pang</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[John is the kind of guy you love to hate.   He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say.  When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, &#8220;If I were any better, I would be twins!&#8221;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John is the kind of guy you love to hate.   He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say.  When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, &#8220;If I were any better, I would be twins!&#8221;</p>
<p>He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.</p>
<p>Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and asked him, &#8220;I don&#8217;t get it! You can&#8217;t be a positive person all of the time.  How do you do it?&#8221;</p>
<p>He replied, &#8220;Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today.  You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it.  I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life.  I choose the positive side of life.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Yeah, right, it&#8217;s not that easy,&#8221; I protested.</p>
<p> &#8220;Yes, it is,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Life is all about choices.  When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice.  You choose how you react to situations.  You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.  The bottom line:  It&#8217;s your choice how you live your life.&#8221;</p>
<p>I reflected on what he said.  Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business.  We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.</p>
<p>Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw him about six months after the accident.</p>
<p>When I asked him how he was, he replied, &#8220;If I were any better, I&#8217;d be twins&#8230; Wanna see my scars?&#8221; I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. </p>
<p>&#8220;The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be born daughter,&#8221; he replied. &#8220;Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices:  I could choose to live or I could choose to die.  I chose to live.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Weren&#8217;t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?&#8221;  I asked.</p>
<p>He continued, &#8220;The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine.  But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared.  In their eyes, I read &#8216;he&#8217;s a dead man&#8217;.  I knew I needed to take action.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What did you do?&#8221; I asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,&#8221; said John. &#8220;She asked if I was allergic to anything &#8216;Yes, I replied.&#8217;  The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, &#8216;Gravity&#8217;. Over their laughter, I told them, &#8216;I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.&#8221;&#8221;</p>
<p>He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.</p>
<p>Attitude, after all, is everything. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough trouble of its own.</p>
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